Essential do’s for a respectful and enriching experience
Thailand is often called the “Land of Smiles”—and for good reason. Its vibrant culture, gentle hospitality, and beautiful landscapes make it a dream destination for both travelers and long-term expats. But to truly enjoy and connect with Thai culture, it helps to understand the social norms that locals value.
Here are 10 important things to remember when you’re in Thailand, whether you’re visiting for a week or staying for a year.
1. Show Respect for the Thai Royal Family
The monarchy holds a sacred place in Thai society. Speak respectfully about the royal family, and stand when the national anthem plays at public events or in cinemas.
Tip: You’ll also see portraits of the King in homes and businesses—treat them with the same respect you would show in a place of worship.
2. Be Mindful of the Head and Feet
The head is considered the highest and most sacred part of the body, while feet are the lowest. Avoid touching people’s heads, and be careful not to point your feet at others, religious objects, or statues.
Tip: Tuck your feet under you when sitting in temples or on the floor.
3. Practice Calm and Courtesy in All Situations
Thais value peace and harmony. Keeping calm, even in frustrating situations, is seen as a strength. Smile, speak softly, and avoid confrontations in public.
Phrase to know: “Mai pen rai” means “It’s okay” or “No worries,” and it captures the easygoing Thai spirit.
4. Dress Modestly When Visiting Temples
Temples (wats) are sacred spaces. Wearing modest clothing that covers shoulders, chest, and knees is a sign of respect. Always remove your shoes before entering.
Bonus Tip: Bring a scarf or light cover-up when sightseeing—it’s an easy way to stay respectful and comfortable.
5. Treat Buddha Images with Reverence
Buddha statues are not decorations—they’re deeply sacred symbols. Always approach them with respect: no climbing, sitting on, or turning your back to them for selfies.
6. Respect Monks and Monastic Traditions
Monks are highly respected in Thai society. When greeting a monk, show extra care and avoid direct contact, especially if you’re a woman. Give offerings by placing them on a cloth or designated area.
7. Return the Thai Greeting – The Wai
The wai—placing your palms together in a prayer-like gesture—is a beautiful sign of respect. When someone greets you with a wai, returning it (especially to elders) is appreciated.
Pro Tip: Use the wai when saying “hello” (sawasdee) or “thank you” (khop khun).
8. Use Your Right Hand or Both Hands When Giving
Handing someone something with your right hand or both hands is considered polite. The left hand is traditionally seen as unclean, especially in formal or respectful settings.
9. Remove Your Shoes Before Entering Homes and Temples
It’s customary to take off your shoes before entering someone’s home, a temple, or even some cafes and shops. Look for a shoe rack or cues from locals.
10. Learn and Respect Local Customs
Whether it’s learning a few Thai phrases or understanding the importance of body language, taking time to learn local customs goes a long way. It shows appreciation—and often opens doors to deeper connections.
By following these simple, respectful practices, you’ll not only avoid cultural missteps—you’ll gain a deeper appreciation for the kindness, thoughtfulness, and beauty of Thai culture. Whether you’re enjoying street food in Bangkok or meditating in Chiang Mai, these tips will help you feel more at home.